Miley’s Back
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I really don’t care for pop culture and try to avoid all the hoopla as often as possible. People whore themselves our for publicity constantly and it’s not anything that interests me.
This becomes tougher for me as my daughters get older. At 12 and 10, I have to be ready to discuss and approach most topics that catch their eye or that their friends are discussing.
Such is the case with Miley’s back. Yes, the 15 year-old daughter of a country music singer and Disney’s most cherished possession recently took off her shirt and they took a picture of her back. I’m indifferent. She didn’t show anything that would truly upset people. It’s more what she didn’t show. The public has become worked up over what is not seen in a picture and that seems poor.
My oldest daughter said that she thinks it’s wrong. The picture. I asked her why and what ensued was a rather lengthy discussion about when others determine what is wrong and right for us- the public.
We covered language and who determines what is proper for us to say and what isn’t. How the trouble she can get in at school is based on some crazy meeting held years ago. I asked her to tell me the difference in meaning for the following four statements.
- God Damn It
- Holy Fuck
- Holy Crap
- Wow
Based on when they are used- nothing. Two of those, though, will get her in trouble.
We discussed television and how it’s perfectly fine to show murder, dead bodies, and violent acts against people. Yet, it’s not fine to show any ounce of nudity… or Miley’s back.
We discussed the fine line that is created by society regarding art vs. pornography. This discussion began with Renaissance era artwork. Michelangelo was a great artist, yet much of his work involved unclothed people.
We even discussed prohibition briefly.
It was a great springboard into a discussion of socialized norms. Of course with cautionary words regarding the consequences of breaking those accepted norms- no matter how conservative the rules we break seem.
I would like to thank our conservative Christian nation for have such terrible norms. For making a ridiculously unappealing picture such as that one become such a great controversy that I was able to have a discussion of such great magnitude with my daughters. That I was able to discuss with her how we are seemingly unable to make up our own minds and that we are often expected to accept that society’s judgement regarding most issues.
It was also a perfect opportunity to remind her to think for herself and ask questions.
Popularity: 42% [?]
I really don’t care for pop culture and try to avoid all the hoopla as often as possible. People whore themselves our for publicity constantly and it’s not anything that interests me.
This becomes tougher for me as my daughters get older. At 12 and 10, I have to be ready to discuss and approach most topics that catch their eye or that their friends are discussing.
Such is the case with Miley’s back. Yes, the 15 year-old daughter of a country music singer and Disney’s most cherished possession recently took off her shirt and they took a picture of her back. I’m indifferent. She didn’t show anything that would truly upset people. It’s more what she didn’t show. The public has become worked up over what is not seen in a picture and that seems poor.
My oldest daughter said that she thinks it’s wrong. The picture. I asked her why and what ensued was a rather lengthy discussion about when others determine what is wrong and right for us- the public.
We covered language and who determines what is proper for us to say and what isn’t. How the trouble she can get in at school is based on some crazy meeting held years ago. I asked her to tell me the difference in meaning for the following four statements.
- God Damn It
- Holy Fuck
- Holy Crap
- Wow
Based on when they are used- nothing. Two of those, though, will get her in trouble.
We discussed television and how it’s perfectly fine to show murder, dead bodies, and violent acts against people. Yet, it’s not fine to show any ounce of nudity… or Miley’s back.
We discussed the fine line that is created by society regarding art vs. pornography. This discussion began with Renaissance era artwork. Michelangelo was a great artist, yet much of his work involved unclothed people.
We even discussed prohibition briefly.
It was a great springboard into a discussion of socialized norms. Of course with cautionary words regarding the consequences of breaking those accepted norms- no matter how conservative the rules we break seem.
I would like to thank our conservative Christian nation for have such terrible norms. For making a ridiculously unappealing picture such as that one become such a great controversy that I was able to have a discussion of such great magnitude with my daughters. That I was able to discuss with her how we are seemingly unable to make up our own minds and that we are often expected to accept that society’s judgement regarding most issues.
It was also a perfect opportunity to remind her to think for herself and ask questions.
Popularity: 42% [?]



